I don't know how to fix the fact that I am not in love with my husband anymore. Suggestions?

Before you deal with the Erectile Dysfunction you need to improve your emotional relationship. My husband and i have been where you are and let me tell you there is a light at the end of the tunnel, our problems started when we had 2 children in the space of two years. What little time we spent together was spent arguing. My husband didn't want to go to counselling because he said he would find it weird talking to a stranger about our problems. So i read a self help book called 'His needs, Her needs' and approached my husband about using those strategies to improve our marriage to which he agreed. It took a few good go's to get it right. We took on our own little challenge of not arguing AT ALL for the following 4 weeks. We ped that challenge and realised it wasn't really that difficult we just chose to speak with each other with respect. The love grew from there. Sometimes you have to change yourself in order to change your spouse. I bet you are still madly in love with your husband and it will take a few weeks of him calling you 'sweetheart' and 'darling' rather than b**** or c*** for that love to resurface. And another thing, make a contract with each other, a written one, maybe you can demand that he calls you nice words like darling, sweety, honey. After your anger disappears and your love for each other grows you can begin to approach your husband about the ED in a nice non-confrontational way. When your husband feels loved and appreciated he will also put your needs first and will consider taking medication for his problem.